Thursday, December 13, 2012
Mr. Dress Up Would Be Proud
Inspired by Mr. DressUp, I decided I'd like to make a Tickle Trunk at some point for my children! Keeping mind that Abbey is less than one, and Jack is at the time of this post 8 weeks old, I wasn't really planning on doing it anytime soon! However, when the opportunity presented itself, I jumped at the chance!
Raymond's car needed an oil change, so we had switched cars for the week so I could take it in to the dealership, well across the street from the dealership is a store called "New to U" and the sign said second hand baby clothes, furniture and toys... also keep in mind this was the week before Halloween! I went in and have costumes, yes they did!!!! I just started shopping and Cindy the lady behind the till just started shaking her head! I think I ended up with 18 costumes, ranging from the kids can use these now, until they are about 8 probably if not older.
It was just so much fun! And Cindy, she decided since I was apparently buying things in bulk decided she'd discount their already cheap prices! So in addition to costumes, I got several beautiful dresses for Abbey, I got a winter coat/snow pants for Abbey and lots of fun things!!!!! Loved that store! Here are some of the costumes that we got, but we'll be posting pics for years to come of these costumes!
Intermediate Care Nursery (IMCN)
For the next 16 days the Intermediate Care Nursery (IMCN) would be Jack's home, bed 22! He was in a little pod with 6 other infants, one who had been there since the middle of September and weighed only 2 lbs 5 oz when she was born.
Jack lived in an incubator for 4 or 5 days, attached to leads that measured his Oxygen levels, and heart rate and all that kind of stuff, and was on a feeding tube for the first 10-13 days. At the start he was also on dextrose to help with his sugar levels and his weight! Quickly he came off of that though.
The IMCN was a wonderful place, the staff amazing. We had great nurses Brittany, Josie, Mary-Ann and many others who helped Jack and took amazing care of him. It always amazed me that I was the only parent a lot of the time in that pod, but when I thought about it, I wasn't there 24/7 by any means. I would go in once or twice a day and stay for a couple of hours, do some kangaroo care, read some stories, or sing some songs, and then I'd go home.
Did I feel bad about going home, yes and no... yes because I wanted to be with Jack, and let him know that he was loved..., but no because the nurses there took amazing care of each special little boy and girl there. Plus I had another special little one at home who needed her mommy's care too! The nurses were available 24/7 by phone, and they would call me if anything happened.
The day before we left was Halloween, and each child had received a poem, there was a loot bag with some candy for the parents (I presume it was for me, Jack didn't then and still doesn't eat Chocolate or starbursts!!!), and all of the Pediatricians were dressed up (Thurston Howell III, Sponge Bob, Snow White, and a host of others) and some of the nurses were dressed up too! Abbey was Mickey Mouse that day and it was kind of cute that Jack's nurse for the evening was Minnie Mouse! Jack even got in on the dressing up, as I'd found a bib that said Daddy's Helper!
The staff were all so helpful, and accomodating, Josie took our one week pictures for us! Mary Ann talked so nicely to the babies and all of them, calling them Little Man, or Little Lady, it was nice. Nice to know that when I wasn't there that all of these precious children were being looked after so well.
It was good to know that I could go home for a good night's sleep, and not have to worry about Jack, because it was a little stressful having my family in 3 different locations. Raymond was at work, Jack in IMCN, and Abbey and I at Grandma and Grandpa's house!
So not that I'd recommend you spend time at the IMCN, but if you have to, it is such a welcoming, pleasant place! Oh yes and they let you decorate! A lot of other children had signs, and so wanting to follow suit, I raided my Mother-in-laws sticker box, which is phenomenal as far as sticker boxes go! If there was ever a sticker box to covet that would be the box! Here is my result!
Jack lived in an incubator for 4 or 5 days, attached to leads that measured his Oxygen levels, and heart rate and all that kind of stuff, and was on a feeding tube for the first 10-13 days. At the start he was also on dextrose to help with his sugar levels and his weight! Quickly he came off of that though.
The IMCN was a wonderful place, the staff amazing. We had great nurses Brittany, Josie, Mary-Ann and many others who helped Jack and took amazing care of him. It always amazed me that I was the only parent a lot of the time in that pod, but when I thought about it, I wasn't there 24/7 by any means. I would go in once or twice a day and stay for a couple of hours, do some kangaroo care, read some stories, or sing some songs, and then I'd go home.
Did I feel bad about going home, yes and no... yes because I wanted to be with Jack, and let him know that he was loved..., but no because the nurses there took amazing care of each special little boy and girl there. Plus I had another special little one at home who needed her mommy's care too! The nurses were available 24/7 by phone, and they would call me if anything happened.
The day before we left was Halloween, and each child had received a poem, there was a loot bag with some candy for the parents (I presume it was for me, Jack didn't then and still doesn't eat Chocolate or starbursts!!!), and all of the Pediatricians were dressed up (Thurston Howell III, Sponge Bob, Snow White, and a host of others) and some of the nurses were dressed up too! Abbey was Mickey Mouse that day and it was kind of cute that Jack's nurse for the evening was Minnie Mouse! Jack even got in on the dressing up, as I'd found a bib that said Daddy's Helper!
The staff were all so helpful, and accomodating, Josie took our one week pictures for us! Mary Ann talked so nicely to the babies and all of them, calling them Little Man, or Little Lady, it was nice. Nice to know that when I wasn't there that all of these precious children were being looked after so well.
It was good to know that I could go home for a good night's sleep, and not have to worry about Jack, because it was a little stressful having my family in 3 different locations. Raymond was at work, Jack in IMCN, and Abbey and I at Grandma and Grandpa's house!
So not that I'd recommend you spend time at the IMCN, but if you have to, it is such a welcoming, pleasant place! Oh yes and they let you decorate! A lot of other children had signs, and so wanting to follow suit, I raided my Mother-in-laws sticker box, which is phenomenal as far as sticker boxes go! If there was ever a sticker box to covet that would be the box! Here is my result!
Jack's Birth Story
This is Jack Robert Northcott and this is his story!!!
On Monday, October 15, 2012, I woke up and wasn't feeling 100%, I wasn't feeling horrible as in I shouldn't go to school, and so after wrestling with my desire to stay home and the deadline to call in for a sub, I chose to just go to school... so much easier than planning for a sub. Raymond gave me a blessing, and we all headed out the door, Raymond to Eriksdale for work, and Abbey and I, Abbey for daycare, and me to work!
Still not feeling great, I was working in my classroom, and I decided that probably I was experiencing Braxton Hicks contractions, being that I was due December 4th, and not really thinking anything else. I told my class they needed to be on their best behavior as I wasn't feeling well. One of my girls asked what was wrong and jokingly I said, "I don't know, maybe this baby is trying to come early or something."
I lasted 1/2 hour before the pain started to get worse, and I was starting to feel like I was having a hot flash, at which point, I decided I needed to leave. I said to my EA, here is a brief outline of day, I need to leave, so I waddled down to the Vice-Principals office and told him I was leaving and then went to find the secretary to let her know. Then I drove myself the two minutes to the hospital.
I wandered in and one of my former high school basketball girl's was working the admitting desk... I smiled and told her I thought I was having Braxton Hicks contractions but would like to be checked just in case. I was quickly ushered into one of their emergency rooms, where a nurse came to get my info... and the pains kept getting worse... about an hour later the Doctor came to check on me, and found me in the middle of a contraction... Breathe he said, breathe. He checked me out and decided that I was in full blown labor and that my contractions were about 2 1/2 minutes apart and that he needed to get me into an ambulance, as they really don't deliver babies at our hospital (they didn't even have stir-ups!). Meanwhile about half an hour before the nurse had called Raymond, and said, "Hi, Mr. Northcott, we have your wife here, and she is in a bit of pain, will you come and be with her... " So Raymond got in his car, and drove back the half hour, he arrived just as the doctor decided that I needed to go in the ambulance. "What should I do?," he said. Get Abbey, pack some things and get to Winnipeg. Dutifully off he went to claim our daughter who had just been dropped off at day care 2 1/2 hours previously. And I was loaded into the ambulance.
The doctor said oh your membranes are intact, you'll make it Winnipeg, no problem. My friend Lise (who works in the lab) , who I'd heard in the hallway and called in told the other nurses I'd be lucky to make it to Lundar which is 1/2 hour away. The paramedics Ivan, and Aaron, loaded me into the ambulance, and nurse Lorna, and Dr. Sammy jumped in and off we went sirens blazing!
Highway 6 is full of curves, staying on a gurney in a comfortable position, while you are having contractions is quite a feat, and thankfully, I only did it for half an hour! In that half hour I was trying to hold on, and thinking that it was kind of funny that the doctor was in need of gravol but they only had IV gravol and so Ivan, told him to look out the front window and far down the road whenever possible. He kept checking me and was like, you're good, you're membranes are intact, we'll make Winnipeg... yup, Nope... such was not the case as I said, around 11:20, my water broke, and at 11:30AM, Jack Robert Northcott put in his appearence!
With Jack out and doing okay by their standards, I was able to lay back and enjoy the ride, and joke around with everyone! Dr. Sammy thought I should call Raymond, and so he gave me his cell phone. I called but got no answer. Thinking that anti-climatic, he decided I should call someone else, so I called my mom! Raymond had called her before leaving I guess and she was all in a panic as you can well imagine, and so I calmed her down and told her I was fine and that she had a grandson. :) Yeah!!!!
The paramedics were excited, since they had delivered in the ambulance, they would receive Stork Pins, Ivan had been a paramedic for 13 years and still didn't have one. As my friend Wendy says, I'll do anything to help someone out!
They made it to the hospital, and Dr. Sammy carried Jack, and I was wheeled in. Someone, however, had forgotten to notify the hospital that the 33 week pregnant lady, was now not pregnant, and there was a handsome young man who was in need of attention! :)
Raymond arrived about 1/2 hour after that to find that we had a son, and they whisked him off to show him Jack and explain more about Jack. Jack's blood sugar was around 2, and he was a little cold. He weighed 4 lbs, 13 oz. So there sat me in a bed, by myself, with no baby, and no husband, and a roommate who had just given birth, and had a cute baby and was surrounded by people, and I was a little weepy!
Shortly, thereafter, they wheeled Jack in and I got to hold him for the first time! :) Then they took him away and Raymond to the Intermediate Care Nursery, which would be Jack's home for the next 16 days. I was wheeled up to my room to wait for Raymond.
Inspired
My Sister-in-law, Jacquie has been quite prolific with her posts lately! I'm more of a post pictures on Facebook and comment on them, but hey I'll go back to the blog, as friends of mine say... "We're not on Facebook and want to see pictures... so here's to you friends! PS. Thanks Jacquie!
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